Why I love my husband

Well as many of you know Barry and I have had some stress in the last week. My new job is coming up, his job hours are changing. Altogether its throwing things out of whack. So it goes without saying that times like these its easy to forget the good stuff and easy to focus on the negative. So todays blog I thought I would take a minute to focus on something good: why I love Barry. There are many many reasons why Barry is the best person in my life, Im gonna share some of them with you.

1. Barry is the funnest guy I know. He can make a joke out of any scenario and finds the homour in situations that I dont. He helps me laugh at myself and not take life so serisouly.

2. Barry is thoughtful. When I least expect it he does something unexpected and kind. He always puts my needs first and does small things for me that mean the world. When Im sad and remembering not so good times he surprises me with his words and actions.

3. Barry is Handsome. Barry has the bluest eyes of anyone I know. He can turn me to putty and get me to agree to anything with a look (including express view TV). His smile is contagious one look at that grin and even if Im mad at something my lips turn up despite my efforts to hide a grin.

4. Barry is sensative. I know that many men spend there whole life not wanting to show emotion and even he would joke about going to "get you someone". But I have seen his heart and he has a good soul he is truly good at the core he makes me feel guilty sometimes because I think he is truely a better person then myself. I am lucky to have him influence my life and teach me ways of being a better person. I hope that I can be the kind of wife to him as the husband he already is to me.

5. Barry puts up with a bed hog. What you say how can this be good? Put two bed hogs together to share and it gets interesting. Even when he gives me a shove over or tries to tickle me to get me to move , it always makes me laugh. And when Im sad or scared or just needing to feel loved he lets me cuddle him and doesnt complain that Im in his space.

6. Barry is patient. I am perhaps one of the most frustrating people on earth. Im dramtic I do rash things and I often spill out things that I dont mean but say in a wrong moment. Barry puts up with me. He never gives up on me and is willing to listen to me and all the crap I can sometimes come up with. He grounds me brings me back to calm and reality when I would let myself spin off to outer space and lose all logic Barry brings me into focus and helps me see the truth.

7. Barry knows me. With one look one gesture he knows my mood and what Im thinking. Hes so insink with me that I just have to look at him and he already knows whats going on in my head. This helps when momments of humour arise in public and one cant say hey look at that- its good to have someone to share a private joke with.

8. Barry is a good listener. He hears me out lets me tell him anything and remembers all the insignficant details of my stories. He remembers names of my friends a work, he helps me to strive to be a better listener he teaches me that talking is not nearly as important as hearing what the other person has to say.

9. Barry loves. Barry is loving he would forgive anyone. He has shown such love and forgiveness to people in his life who have hurt him. He can always find something good to say about even the most unpleasant of people. He loves me the way I am I dont feel the need to change, I am accepted and I know that he is proud of me.

10. Barry is a hard worker. Barry works tirelessly at 2 jobs every week. He puts in 110% effort in his work life to provide for us and keep us safe. I feel safe with him and Im so proud of all that he has done professionally. He is so trustworthy and smart he can learn anything and do a good job. His bosses and co-workers are lucky to have him work with them.

This is only a small list of the things I love about him. He makes my life complete ( I know a little cheesy Jerry Maguire for ya) I am so happy to be married to him. I know that no matter what challenges life brings us we will be happy sucessful and work together to find solutions. I love my little Bear Claw.